"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this an AFC move?

MR MIZUN0

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Well today while out to eat with my mother and her friend, we get seated at a table, and this HB waitress was serving every table around ours, but we ended up with some random waiter. Well long story short, the place really thinned out and with the football game on, two of the waiters just sit at the bar and watch the game (Jets, Chargers) while this HB is doing work cleaning tables, and prepping them. So while thinking I was debating on going over to her and saying this: hey, it looks like you work hard for tips, but i work even harder for cute chicks like yourself, cause it seems like your co-workers dont, can i give you a hand cleaning those tables?

Would that be considered an AFC move, or something a DJ would pull....I am very inexperienced with the whole DJ thing so just wondering.

I never said the line to her, cause I was with my mother (that would have been very akward, especially cause her friend was there, well a family friend)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MR MIZUN0 said:
Well today while out to eat with my mother and her friend, we get seated at a table, and this HB waitress was serving every table around ours, but we ended up with some random waiter. Well long story short, the place really thinned out and with the football game on, two of the waiters just sit at the bar and watch the game (Jets, Chargers) while this HB is doing work cleaning tables, and prepping them. So while thinking I was debating on going over to her and saying this: hey, it looks like you work hard for tips, but i work even harder for cute chicks like yourself, cause it seems like your co-workers dont, can i give you a hand cleaning those tables?

Would that be considered an AFC move, or something a DJ would pull....I am very inexperienced with the whole DJ thing so just wondering.

I never said the line to her, cause I was with my mother (that would have been very akward, especially cause her friend was there, well a family friend)
Yeah that would be kind of weird to say and sound kind of afcish. How about something like say Hi to her *then look at her co-workers then back at her* "Damn sweetie are your co-workers always this lazy" *she laughs* then you introduce yourself yadda yadda yadda and try to pull the number:)
 

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Yea, I could see Mystery doing that.
*sigh*
Rule #1 Be the prize.
You create attraction with an interesting conversation, confidence, high value, etc, while teasing her and acting aloof.

Please read the Dj Bible, its an easy read.
 

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After re-reading this, I just cant believe I didn't act on the golden opportunity that was right in front of me....I need to grow a pair, and just go big or go home. Any advice on how to just shoot for the stars?
 

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MR MIZUN0 said:
After re-reading this, I just cant believe I didn't act on the golden opportunity that was right in front of me....I need to grow a pair, and just go big or go home. Any advice on how to just shoot for the stars?
Whatever you do, DON'T USE THAT LINE in your original post.

Read the DJ bible.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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