"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this AFC behavior?

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1) If a girl drop something on the floor in a classroom and you pick it up for her.

2) Walking with a girl and letting her entering open doorways first.

3) Holding the door for some randam girl
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1) If a girl drop something on the floor in a classroom and you pick it up for her.

Yes


2) Walking with a girl and letting her entering open doorways first.

Sometimes



3) Holding the door for some randam girl

Sometimes


Remember that whether the girl sees these as weak motions on your parts depends upon if she is looking at you as a strong person doing mediocre things or a weak person doing subjective things.
 
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If you are doing it to be nice I say they wouldn't....If you are doing it to try to make her like you then yes.
 
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doing these things are 2nd nature to me. I usually dont smile when I do em, I just do it like it was nothing.
 
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NO unless you try to talk to her after that while blushing at the same time.

2)
NO, read above.

3)
NO, read above.

I would do all the three things whether it's a girl or a guy or a Martian as long as they are nice, it's simple courtesy. But I won't go out of my way to do it though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Exactly. Just common courtesy....unless a girl drops her books and you run across the room to help her. That'd be retarded :)

You can be a 'gentleman' without being AFC. Just use your head....you don't have to kiss any chick's ass to be polite.
 
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There is nothing wrong with being nice. In fact if a girl drops her stuff (assuming its near you) picking up for her can give you a great opener.

(But please don't run halfway across the room to do it!)
 
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Originally posted by BlackDragon
1) If a girl drop something on the floor in a classroom and you pick it up for her.

2) Walking with a girl and letting her entering open doorways first.

3) Holding the door for some randam girl
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You are just being a man there is nothing wrong with the above you treat the right at your way and by doing those 3 things you mentioned you don't come as an afc just as a gentleman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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