Iceberg said:
Man, I hate to be the negative di*khead on the site, but you are a total spaz. Some people just shouldn't procreate.
Text her and say "Next thursday." It will neither increase nor decrease her interest in you. Either she likes you or she doesnt. This one goddamn text will not change that.
The End.
I agree with this
calm the hell down man. Are you going to die if she flakes or something? Loss your home? get charged a flaker's fee? Become a slave? No? then why are you so concerned?
My guess is that you have seen this behavior with this chick before and don't know how to handle it. A chick flaking is not worth your time. Tell her straight up, "look. Are we doing this or not because if not then there is no point to us continuing". I've said this before and either the chick will get with the program or she will not. To which is she doesn't then she wasn't that into you in the first place. Not a hair on your head will be harmed and you should still be able to walk good enough to move on to the next chick.
Don't read too much into her texts. If she says yes,ok,sure, anything along those lines then that would be a positive too me. You can't hear a person's tone over text and just because she's into you doesn't mean every text will be followed by a billion smilies and xoxoxoxoxo's. My biggest plate at the moment responds to me with one word texts all the time and yet loves to hang out with me. If yo want to convo then call her. You want a book response then read erotic fiction...
seriously, if a chick flakes repeatedly it means
1. she's busy
2. she has a dude
3. she's just using you for attention
all of which mean you are not too high on her priority list and should probably not waste your time worrying about her.
Have a life besides going out with her and you won't even worry about her flaking. She'll be an after thought just like the sh1t you took this morning.
