"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So my girl and i broke up a but we kept things cool and i let things be cool in the hopes i would be fuking her soon in the future. Well that time came and she invited me to spend the night when she had the house to herself. So anyways ya we had a blast, had a few drinks and i wound up having sex with her that night. This is 3 days before my birthday. So the next morning i leave expecting to her to call or something. Since i left her house she has not called and sent me 1 text msg saying happy bday.

This is really bothering me cuz its been a week and still not a word from her.

And yes, i have not called her or tried to make any contact. Thats how i got her back in the first place.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What exactly do you want to have with this girl?

I look down on boys who have to resort to using alcoholic drinks to get women to loosen up.
 
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Well if you broke up what else would you expect other than sex? Its not like she wants to be part of your life and share holidays with you.
 
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flexion is on the button alright.

You two aren't a couple anymore. She wanted sex, that's it. Don't expect her to start asking you for cuddles.
 
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Hitman10000 said:
I look down on boys who have to resort to using alcoholic drinks to get women to loosen up.
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Come on, man. Read his post. He never mentioned getting her drunk. He said they "had a few drinks". I don't look down on anyone who socially drinks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know she is waiting for me to call her....but as an ex it is not my place to call her. Im going to let her ponder on what i could have gotten myself into on my 21st birthday and spending the weekend in Houston.

But yes you guys are right, i have no place waiting for her to call. She is no longer a part of my life. Thanks fellas
 
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