"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So my girl and i broke up a but we kept things cool and i let things be cool in the hopes i would be fuking her soon in the future. Well that time came and she invited me to spend the night when she had the house to herself. So anyways ya we had a blast, had a few drinks and i wound up having sex with her that night. This is 3 days before my birthday. So the next morning i leave expecting to her to call or something. Since i left her house she has not called and sent me 1 text msg saying happy bday.

This is really bothering me cuz its been a week and still not a word from her.

And yes, i have not called her or tried to make any contact. Thats how i got her back in the first place.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What exactly do you want to have with this girl?

I look down on boys who have to resort to using alcoholic drinks to get women to loosen up.
 
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Well if you broke up what else would you expect other than sex? Its not like she wants to be part of your life and share holidays with you.
 
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flexion is on the button alright.

You two aren't a couple anymore. She wanted sex, that's it. Don't expect her to start asking you for cuddles.
 
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Hitman10000 said:
I look down on boys who have to resort to using alcoholic drinks to get women to loosen up.
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Come on, man. Read his post. He never mentioned getting her drunk. He said they "had a few drinks". I don't look down on anyone who socially drinks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know she is waiting for me to call her....but as an ex it is not my place to call her. Im going to let her ponder on what i could have gotten myself into on my 21st birthday and spending the weekend in Houston.

But yes you guys are right, i have no place waiting for her to call. She is no longer a part of my life. Thanks fellas
 
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