"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Colinski282

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So my girl and i broke up a but we kept things cool and i let things be cool in the hopes i would be fuking her soon in the future. Well that time came and she invited me to spend the night when she had the house to herself. So anyways ya we had a blast, had a few drinks and i wound up having sex with her that night. This is 3 days before my birthday. So the next morning i leave expecting to her to call or something. Since i left her house she has not called and sent me 1 text msg saying happy bday.

This is really bothering me cuz its been a week and still not a word from her.

And yes, i have not called her or tried to make any contact. Thats how i got her back in the first place.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hitman10000

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What exactly do you want to have with this girl?

I look down on boys who have to resort to using alcoholic drinks to get women to loosen up.
 

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Well if you broke up what else would you expect other than sex? Its not like she wants to be part of your life and share holidays with you.
 

KillaCam

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flexion is on the button alright.

You two aren't a couple anymore. She wanted sex, that's it. Don't expect her to start asking you for cuddles.
 

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Hitman10000 said:
I look down on boys who have to resort to using alcoholic drinks to get women to loosen up.
Come on, man. Read his post. He never mentioned getting her drunk. He said they "had a few drinks". I don't look down on anyone who socially drinks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Colinski282

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I know she is waiting for me to call her....but as an ex it is not my place to call her. Im going to let her ponder on what i could have gotten myself into on my 21st birthday and spending the weekend in Houston.

But yes you guys are right, i have no place waiting for her to call. She is no longer a part of my life. Thanks fellas
 
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