TheGambino
Master Don Juan
I feel like everyone is flaming. Its not That i didnt WANT to. I couldnt someone was already on his way to pick me up..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is this a sign of interest
- Thread starter TheGambino
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Does your friend have a cell phone? When she asked all you had to say was, "Oh, yeah that would be nice actually that way my friend doesn't have to pick me up. Let me call him to let him know"
casanova_goat
Senior Don Juan
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If anything she feels comfortable around you and doesn't see you see you as a lurking rapist. Thus she may be inclined to take you up on a date.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
be coy, she's the aggressor in the situation. you want to make her feel like she's on a continuous chase for you by hanging validation in front of her. Then you can bang her as much as you want...
next time you see her leaving tell her you're gonna take her up on the ride and escalate. Car is a really easy place for that. It's close quarters and she's driving so she's gonna be distracted. Get some rapport then see if you can get your hand on her thigh or something like that.. Afterwards try to get her into your house and bang her, sounds like she's throwing green lights your way bud, go get her.
next time you see her leaving tell her you're gonna take her up on the ride and escalate. Car is a really easy place for that. It's close quarters and she's driving so she's gonna be distracted. Get some rapport then see if you can get your hand on her thigh or something like that.. Afterwards try to get her into your house and bang her, sounds like she's throwing green lights your way bud, go get her.
This is it. She is madly and deeply in love with you. Wait a few more days and she will get in touch with you and ask you out on a date.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.