TheGambino
Master Don Juan
I feel like everyone is flaming. Its not That i didnt WANT to. I couldnt someone was already on his way to pick me up..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is this a sign of interest
- Thread starter TheGambino
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Does your friend have a cell phone? When she asked all you had to say was, "Oh, yeah that would be nice actually that way my friend doesn't have to pick me up. Let me call him to let him know"
casanova_goat
Senior Don Juan
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If anything she feels comfortable around you and doesn't see you see you as a lurking rapist. Thus she may be inclined to take you up on a date.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
be coy, she's the aggressor in the situation. you want to make her feel like she's on a continuous chase for you by hanging validation in front of her. Then you can bang her as much as you want...
next time you see her leaving tell her you're gonna take her up on the ride and escalate. Car is a really easy place for that. It's close quarters and she's driving so she's gonna be distracted. Get some rapport then see if you can get your hand on her thigh or something like that.. Afterwards try to get her into your house and bang her, sounds like she's throwing green lights your way bud, go get her.
next time you see her leaving tell her you're gonna take her up on the ride and escalate. Car is a really easy place for that. It's close quarters and she's driving so she's gonna be distracted. Get some rapport then see if you can get your hand on her thigh or something like that.. Afterwards try to get her into your house and bang her, sounds like she's throwing green lights your way bud, go get her.
This is it. She is madly and deeply in love with you. Wait a few more days and she will get in touch with you and ask you out on a date.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.