TheGambino
Master Don Juan
I feel like everyone is flaming. Its not That i didnt WANT to. I couldnt someone was already on his way to pick me up..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is this a sign of interest
- Thread starter TheGambino
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Does your friend have a cell phone? When she asked all you had to say was, "Oh, yeah that would be nice actually that way my friend doesn't have to pick me up. Let me call him to let him know"
casanova_goat
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If anything she feels comfortable around you and doesn't see you see you as a lurking rapist. Thus she may be inclined to take you up on a date.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
be coy, she's the aggressor in the situation. you want to make her feel like she's on a continuous chase for you by hanging validation in front of her. Then you can bang her as much as you want...
next time you see her leaving tell her you're gonna take her up on the ride and escalate. Car is a really easy place for that. It's close quarters and she's driving so she's gonna be distracted. Get some rapport then see if you can get your hand on her thigh or something like that.. Afterwards try to get her into your house and bang her, sounds like she's throwing green lights your way bud, go get her.
next time you see her leaving tell her you're gonna take her up on the ride and escalate. Car is a really easy place for that. It's close quarters and she's driving so she's gonna be distracted. Get some rapport then see if you can get your hand on her thigh or something like that.. Afterwards try to get her into your house and bang her, sounds like she's throwing green lights your way bud, go get her.
This is it. She is madly and deeply in love with you. Wait a few more days and she will get in touch with you and ask you out on a date.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.