"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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going out with this girl tomorrow for drinks, haven’t seen her for a long time. Today she sends me a text with a picture of her friend and says “she’s single”. How does one respond to this? And yes I’m interested in the girl I’m going for drinks with (who is also single) not the friend.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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going out with this girl tomorrow for drinks, haven’t seen her for a long time. Today she sends me a text with a picture of her friend and says “she’s single”. How does one respond to this? And yes I’m interested in the girl I’m going for drinks with (who is also single) not the friend.
Yes.

Play the "loyal I'm on a date with you guy" card

Charming, "I'm sure she'll meet somebody she'll like soon"
 

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Not sure I would still meet the chick you are interested in if she is trying to hook you up with her friend??? Seems like a waste of time with you paying the dinner/drinks tab.

If the friend is hot ask if she wants to switch places with her tonight lol.
 

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going out with this girl tomorrow for drinks, haven’t seen her for a long time. Today she sends me a text with a picture of her friend and says “she’s single”. How does one respond to this? And yes I’m interested in the girl I’m going for drinks with (who is also single) not the friend.
Hate it when girls do this sh*te, lol.
 

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Yes.

Play the "loyal I'm on a date with you guy" card

Charming, "I'm sure she'll meet somebody she'll like soon"
I used this response. She didn’t even acknowledge the answer, the conversation just carried on as it had. Then she asks me “by the way, what kinda girl you into?” Lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I used this response. She didn’t even acknowledge the answer, the conversation just carried on as it had. Then she asks me “by the way, what kinda girl you into?” Lol
Yeah it's a trick, I don't know if it's coming from insecurity but she's checking to see if you have interest in her or whether you'd jump on the next girl in a flash. Of course you tell her what she needs to hear without falling for the trick. Fall for the trick and she ejects you (confirming her insecurity that you weren't really into her/are a player)

It reminded me of a similar situation years ago, met a girl in a bar on Sunday afternoon (out from night before) kind of hit it of and sorted logistics back to hers, she wanted to hit her local bar on the way back where her friends where (male and female). Introduced and chatting and she went off to bathroom or whatever, one of her female friends got very close to me......start complimenting me and propositioning me.......I thought something was off as she was very forward and it was her friend....smelt a set up so said out loud...."nah I came with "ella" and I'm leaving with "ella" "......

..they all thought I was a "genuine stand up bloke" after that.

had i taken the bait.......out the bar door and home alone
 

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It means her friend probably has told her she likes you and told her friend to "hook her up" or gauge your interest.
 
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