"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is this a red flag?

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my bro likes this chick. man, i should say he's hooked. he gets so nervous around her when they talk, and he thinks she's so fine.

i told him to go for it, and not to hype her up too much as to put her higher than himself. from what i hear and see she seems like a pretty nice girl, and tons of guys are chasing her, and she seems to show a particular interest in him. she talks to him and initiates contact....that is until i got on facebook with him

he was showing me her pics, and she's hot. but i might have noticed something. she has a lot of party pics, and about half of them consist of her drunk making out with other chicks, or doing very suggestive things with them. he just glanced over them, and blew it off when i questioned it.

this looks like a warning sign to me? should i warn him of this? I don't want him to end up getting played or hurt again like in the past. he has major trust issues and not very successful with chicks.

what's your take?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sounds to me like he is after your prototype american chick, who these days seem to only party and make out with other chicks because it gives her social proof AKA attention wh0re.

Don't do nothing. He may very well have the skills to be getting some and be happy with this girl (either short or long terms) and he may also crush and burn but the important thing is that HE IS GOING TO EXPERIENCE THIS ON HIS OWN AND LEARN FROM IT.

If you try to interfere, he will blame your ass for trying to C0ckblock him. Let him be. Support him and give him advice if he asks you too but don't stop him from trying to get some ass.
 

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X-ecution said:
my bro likes this chick. man, i should say he's hooked. he gets so nervous around her when they talk, and he thinks she's so fine.

i told him to go for it, and not to hype her up too much as to put her higher than himself. from what i hear and see she seems like a pretty nice girl, and tons of guys are chasing her, and she seems to show a particular interest in him. she talks to him and initiates contact....that is until i got on facebook with him

he was showing me her pics, and she's hot. but i might have noticed something. she has a lot of party pics, and about half of them consist of her drunk making out with other chicks, or doing very suggestive things with them. he just glanced over them, and blew it off when i questioned it.

this looks like a warning sign to me? should i warn him of this? I don't want him to end up getting played or hurt again like in the past. he has major trust issues and not very successful with chicks.

what's your take?

Maybe he should ask her out and wait for a "yes" first because if she says "no", problem solved!
 

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DJDamage said:
Sounds to me like he is after your prototype american chick, who these days seem to only party and make out with other chicks because it gives her social proof AKA attention wh0re.

Don't do nothing. He may very well have the skills to be getting some and be happy with this girl (either short or long terms) and he may also crush and burn but the important thing is that HE IS GOING TO EXPERIENCE THIS ON HIS OWN AND LEARN FROM IT.

If you try to interfere, he will blame your ass for trying to C0ckblock him. Let him be. Support him and give him advice if he asks you too but don't stop him from trying to get some ass.
I have to go with this one right here. I tried to tell a friend some advice on a girl once and it didn't work. He completly ignored what I said to him and he got burned....
 
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