"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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is this a red flag?

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my bro likes this chick. man, i should say he's hooked. he gets so nervous around her when they talk, and he thinks she's so fine.

i told him to go for it, and not to hype her up too much as to put her higher than himself. from what i hear and see she seems like a pretty nice girl, and tons of guys are chasing her, and she seems to show a particular interest in him. she talks to him and initiates contact....that is until i got on facebook with him

he was showing me her pics, and she's hot. but i might have noticed something. she has a lot of party pics, and about half of them consist of her drunk making out with other chicks, or doing very suggestive things with them. he just glanced over them, and blew it off when i questioned it.

this looks like a warning sign to me? should i warn him of this? I don't want him to end up getting played or hurt again like in the past. he has major trust issues and not very successful with chicks.

what's your take?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJDamage

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Sounds to me like he is after your prototype american chick, who these days seem to only party and make out with other chicks because it gives her social proof AKA attention wh0re.

Don't do nothing. He may very well have the skills to be getting some and be happy with this girl (either short or long terms) and he may also crush and burn but the important thing is that HE IS GOING TO EXPERIENCE THIS ON HIS OWN AND LEARN FROM IT.

If you try to interfere, he will blame your ass for trying to C0ckblock him. Let him be. Support him and give him advice if he asks you too but don't stop him from trying to get some ass.
 

DonJuan11

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X-ecution said:
my bro likes this chick. man, i should say he's hooked. he gets so nervous around her when they talk, and he thinks she's so fine.

i told him to go for it, and not to hype her up too much as to put her higher than himself. from what i hear and see she seems like a pretty nice girl, and tons of guys are chasing her, and she seems to show a particular interest in him. she talks to him and initiates contact....that is until i got on facebook with him

he was showing me her pics, and she's hot. but i might have noticed something. she has a lot of party pics, and about half of them consist of her drunk making out with other chicks, or doing very suggestive things with them. he just glanced over them, and blew it off when i questioned it.

this looks like a warning sign to me? should i warn him of this? I don't want him to end up getting played or hurt again like in the past. he has major trust issues and not very successful with chicks.

what's your take?

Maybe he should ask her out and wait for a "yes" first because if she says "no", problem solved!
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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DJDamage said:
Sounds to me like he is after your prototype american chick, who these days seem to only party and make out with other chicks because it gives her social proof AKA attention wh0re.

Don't do nothing. He may very well have the skills to be getting some and be happy with this girl (either short or long terms) and he may also crush and burn but the important thing is that HE IS GOING TO EXPERIENCE THIS ON HIS OWN AND LEARN FROM IT.

If you try to interfere, he will blame your ass for trying to C0ckblock him. Let him be. Support him and give him advice if he asks you too but don't stop him from trying to get some ass.
I have to go with this one right here. I tried to tell a friend some advice on a girl once and it didn't work. He completly ignored what I said to him and he got burned....
 
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