"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this a potential BPD chick??

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Let us know how it turns out. Are you aware that the symptoms don't appear for 3 to 4 weeks? Until then you won't know. Once you do know she already has you where she wants you.

By the way, does she have an ulra-sexy, Marilyn Monroe type of voice (almost a baby voice)? That's very common in most of them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Donno, haven't talked with her yet but will report back.

EDIT:

Ah, sh*t. Sorry to waste everyone's time with this. Looks like it's not going to happen. She dropped the fact that she's got roommates who "don't appreciate guests at night," and I don't actually have a home at this point (I sleep on couches), so that'll obviously never work. I cancelled our date.

Dammit!! Was looking to experience my first BPD.
 
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Update: Ever since I told the chick I didn't want to go out with her she's been blowing up my phone. LOL, can't say it's surprising, but it's always funny. She sent some pics and asked me out for the next night. I said no.

Kind of sad, really. The girl has an 8 face and either a 7 or 8 body. If I keep blowing her off it may turn her on so much she'll bang one out in the back of a car or something. :)
 

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Zarky said:
and I don't actually have a home at this point (I sleep on couches)
Couches are usually in homes. So whose homes are you sleeping in?
 

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Dude no offense, but if you want to experience BPD, you are a ****ing idiot. Don't take it personally, just the truth.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Die Hard said:
Couches are usually in homes. So whose homes are you sleeping in?
Mostly ex-girlfriends who want to get back together with me, oftimes in my office... can't really bring a chick back to either of those places.
 

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Why don't you have your own place?
 

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Thats some scary ****. I never knew what a "BPD" was.
I' think i've been in a relationship with one a few years back & was texting one four months ago. **** I must attract them lol.
Top advice guys. Thanks.
 

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Actually, I've always liked couches more than beds for having sex. They're often more stable, you can use the backside and the armrests for suport etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Zarky said:
cause I'm f*ckin broke
You're in no position to play with the fire of a BPD. You are even more vulnerable in your present circumstances. If you see BPD symptoms in a woman you'd better run. Many men have been financially broke and climbed out of it, but a BPD will affect you on levels you don't even know exist. She'll psychologically toss you around like a rag doll and stomp on your carcass.
 

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This people will constantly accuse you of cheating and are very jealous to the the extent it will be very difficult to spin other plates. The most dangerous BPDs are the very rich ones who happen to shower you with very expensive gifts and stuffs on your wishlist.

They never want to sit and discuss a problem with you because they seem delighted in seeing you worried. This people can really ***** about.. Always talking about their good deeds and how other people have taken them for granted. But what I have really come to notice is they are repelled and at the same time attracted to men who can stand their grounds and dictate the terms of the relationship even though they often dislike it.

But the question here is can you really stand your ground when the emasculation process begins ? When they start calling you out on your flaws constantly. They love it when you are open with them as that way they can get to exploit your weaknesses.
 

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Zarky said:
haha well, guess we won't see with this girl anyway.
Just curious, did she speak with tha baby-like, Marilyn Monroe voice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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All these stories of BPD girls are terrifying. I've never experienced but I know a girl I went to high school with who fits those descriptions perfectly. High pitched, baby-like Marilyn Monroe voice, publicizes how much she is in love with her boyfriends and going to marry them after only a few weeks of dating. Acts like she's completely stable but then when the man dumps her attacks any and everybody who makes contact with the ex.

Scary **** guys, why is it so hard to just end it when you realize they are stage 5 clingers.
 

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unfortunately i got to this thread late. but to add my 2 cents, i would've encouraged you to meet up with her (as you planned to do anyway). my reasoning-you have nothing to lose on a few dates and you seeming like a smart dude i'm sure you wouldn't have let her take advantage of you if she was crazy or gold-digging. btw, great job blocking her from trying to make the date at an expensive place.


and it was funny how you became dubious at her "slash" job description. i feel the same way. people who do that tend to portray some dishonesty

btw, i left san diego for dc a year and a half ago. grew up in sd. i miss the socal climate and topography
 

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She sounds more like a loser than a crazy *****. But those are the kind of women you're going to find online. Nothing she said hints at anything other than her being trash... Hence, why Ms. HB8 is on PoF in the first place. Actually reminds me of the loser women I used to meet at bars and parties.
 
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