ok so i was with this girl a few nights ago, we had a good time together, she came back to mine n we kissed for quite a bit
anyway we were going to have sex i think (it was going there anyway) but i kinda messed it up i think
im a virgin atm, n i told her that after we'd been in bed for a while. n i also said i didnt wanna do anything that night (even tho i kinda did want to.. i just had little confidence), stupid thing to say i know! it just came out tho
i guess i said it tho cos i kinda liked this girl, she was cool, n if i did it badly or something then i probs wouldnt see her again...... afc i know! .... but i'd prefere to lose the v to someone im gonna see again, someone decent.
would a girl appreciate the honesty of that^^ or just think you were weird or something?
also, she flaked on me tonight when we were gonna go to the pub, said she was tired and she 'might see me tomorrow'. would a girl really cancel cos of that if they were into you?? i have acute insomnia atm, but im still up for it
is it likely that she's just lost interest or something?
shall i call her again anytime and re-schedule, or just ignore her unless she calls me?
any advice and ideas would be great
thanks
anyway we were going to have sex i think (it was going there anyway) but i kinda messed it up i think
im a virgin atm, n i told her that after we'd been in bed for a while. n i also said i didnt wanna do anything that night (even tho i kinda did want to.. i just had little confidence), stupid thing to say i know! it just came out tho
i guess i said it tho cos i kinda liked this girl, she was cool, n if i did it badly or something then i probs wouldnt see her again...... afc i know! .... but i'd prefere to lose the v to someone im gonna see again, someone decent.
would a girl appreciate the honesty of that^^ or just think you were weird or something?
also, she flaked on me tonight when we were gonna go to the pub, said she was tired and she 'might see me tomorrow'. would a girl really cancel cos of that if they were into you?? i have acute insomnia atm, but im still up for it
is it likely that she's just lost interest or something?
shall i call her again anytime and re-schedule, or just ignore her unless she calls me?
any advice and ideas would be great
thanks