MatureDJ
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Is this a good way to meet women?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
sharkbeat
Master Don Juan
Wow
I was shocked to learn that this dude lives in my city. Granted OKC is no LA or NYC, but there are enough HBs here to go around without having to succumb to this. Dude needs to get out, go to Brick town (our entertainment district) or something.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
darkstarrr
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kind of sad.
anyway, i have been bombarding POF with mass messages and have a 2.5% success rate for meetups.
in addition i've become a regular at barnes a noble and starbucks. they flock there.
i do go to a bars once in a while and play some pool and order an appetizer and a beer and try to meet girls there to. start up convos etc
those are some other ways to meet women that i would do right before if i ever got to the point in the OP.
anyway, i have been bombarding POF with mass messages and have a 2.5% success rate for meetups.
in addition i've become a regular at barnes a noble and starbucks. they flock there.
i do go to a bars once in a while and play some pool and order an appetizer and a beer and try to meet girls there to. start up convos etc
those are some other ways to meet women that i would do right before if i ever got to the point in the OP.