MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Is this a good way to meet women?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
sharkbeat
Master Don Juan
Wow
I was shocked to learn that this dude lives in my city. Granted OKC is no LA or NYC, but there are enough HBs here to go around without having to succumb to this. Dude needs to get out, go to Brick town (our entertainment district) or something.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
darkstarrr
Senior Don Juan
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kind of sad.
anyway, i have been bombarding POF with mass messages and have a 2.5% success rate for meetups.
in addition i've become a regular at barnes a noble and starbucks. they flock there.
i do go to a bars once in a while and play some pool and order an appetizer and a beer and try to meet girls there to. start up convos etc
those are some other ways to meet women that i would do right before if i ever got to the point in the OP.
anyway, i have been bombarding POF with mass messages and have a 2.5% success rate for meetups.
in addition i've become a regular at barnes a noble and starbucks. they flock there.
i do go to a bars once in a while and play some pool and order an appetizer and a beer and try to meet girls there to. start up convos etc
those are some other ways to meet women that i would do right before if i ever got to the point in the OP.