MatureDJ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is this a good way to meet women?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
sharkbeat
Master Don Juan
Wow
I was shocked to learn that this dude lives in my city. Granted OKC is no LA or NYC, but there are enough HBs here to go around without having to succumb to this. Dude needs to get out, go to Brick town (our entertainment district) or something.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
darkstarrr
Senior Don Juan
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kind of sad.
anyway, i have been bombarding POF with mass messages and have a 2.5% success rate for meetups.
in addition i've become a regular at barnes a noble and starbucks. they flock there.
i do go to a bars once in a while and play some pool and order an appetizer and a beer and try to meet girls there to. start up convos etc
those are some other ways to meet women that i would do right before if i ever got to the point in the OP.
anyway, i have been bombarding POF with mass messages and have a 2.5% success rate for meetups.
in addition i've become a regular at barnes a noble and starbucks. they flock there.
i do go to a bars once in a while and play some pool and order an appetizer and a beer and try to meet girls there to. start up convos etc
those are some other ways to meet women that i would do right before if i ever got to the point in the OP.