The_Winger.
Don Juan
I work as a service cashier (checkouts).Does anybody know if i could meet some chicks through this? What would i say? kthankxbai
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is this a good way to meet new chicks?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
KontrollerX
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You work with any hot chicks there?
Thats the best way to go about it.
Hitting on the customers might creep them out.
Thats the best way to go about it.
Hitting on the customers might creep them out.
The_Winger.
Don Juan
Yeah i work with a few hot chicks but they have boyfriends...
What about commenting hot customers on there looks?
Ive done some approaches when i'm not on checkouts like when im packing the shelfs,EG look for a young hot confused customer and say 'Do you need help with anything?' so yeah thats some of it.
What about commenting hot customers on there looks?
Ive done some approaches when i'm not on checkouts like when im packing the shelfs,EG look for a young hot confused customer and say 'Do you need help with anything?' so yeah thats some of it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well yeah, ask them if they need help with anything, but if you want you can continue the conversation, ask them how their day is going, if they're around the area, where they work, etc. As long as you're cool, you can talk to them about anything.
Don't compliment them on their looks. "You are so hot" is going to get you in trouble. You could make a comment on something their wearing, or say something along the lines along "You have a great smile" or something like that. Be careful though, you don't want to lay it on too heavy on the customers. You WILL get fired if you do.
I want to work at a retail clothing store, like the Buckle. I think that would be an awesome way to talk to hot girls putting on hot clothes. I have a girlfriend now, but that doesn't mean I can't look! LOL
Don't compliment them on their looks. "You are so hot" is going to get you in trouble. You could make a comment on something their wearing, or say something along the lines along "You have a great smile" or something like that. Be careful though, you don't want to lay it on too heavy on the customers. You WILL get fired if you do.
I want to work at a retail clothing store, like the Buckle. I think that would be an awesome way to talk to hot girls putting on hot clothes. I have a girlfriend now, but that doesn't mean I can't look! LOL
The_Winger.
Don Juan
LOL,thanks for the advice guys keep it coming.
Joke around with the attractive customers. I was a cashier, and usually the hot chicks that would come in once, would come in again. If that's where they shop, then that's where they shop! I used to tease the hot ones, never number close or compliment them in the register though. Your goal is to build rapport so she knows who you are, then see her around outside of work, and boom. Examples of what I used to do:
(Chick hands me a 20 dollar bill)
I give it right back to her and with a serious face, say, "We don't accept counterfeit twenties." I haven't failed with this one; always gets a laugh. Afterwards, obviously, I laugh with them.
Talk about what they buy, unless it's a personal product or embarassing. Use good judgement!
Keep it light, be cool.
(Chick hands me a 20 dollar bill)
I give it right back to her and with a serious face, say, "We don't accept counterfeit twenties." I haven't failed with this one; always gets a laugh. Afterwards, obviously, I laugh with them.
Talk about what they buy, unless it's a personal product or embarassing. Use good judgement!
Keep it light, be cool.
The_Winger.
Don Juan
Alright.Sounds good.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
yeah it will work. i had a similar job like yours and dude i used to have some good times. its so easy talking to chicks man. your probably going to meet some chicks. like if they buy something make a comment on it saying this cd is good. or this movie is good. just have fun, remember to. theres to many times i see dudes and they look like there going to kill someone. so relax when your doint it.
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Be careful. A friend of mine got fired for being too friendly with girls that came into his store.
The_Winger.
Don Juan
Oh ok.I won't be that friendly...but still friendly enough to possibly meet them after work.