The_Winger.
Don Juan
I work as a service cashier (checkouts).Does anybody know if i could meet some chicks through this? What would i say? kthankxbai
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Is this a good way to meet new chicks?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
KontrollerX
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You work with any hot chicks there?
Thats the best way to go about it.
Hitting on the customers might creep them out.
Thats the best way to go about it.
Hitting on the customers might creep them out.
The_Winger.
Don Juan
Yeah i work with a few hot chicks but they have boyfriends...
What about commenting hot customers on there looks?
Ive done some approaches when i'm not on checkouts like when im packing the shelfs,EG look for a young hot confused customer and say 'Do you need help with anything?' so yeah thats some of it.
What about commenting hot customers on there looks?
Ive done some approaches when i'm not on checkouts like when im packing the shelfs,EG look for a young hot confused customer and say 'Do you need help with anything?' so yeah thats some of it.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Well yeah, ask them if they need help with anything, but if you want you can continue the conversation, ask them how their day is going, if they're around the area, where they work, etc. As long as you're cool, you can talk to them about anything.
Don't compliment them on their looks. "You are so hot" is going to get you in trouble. You could make a comment on something their wearing, or say something along the lines along "You have a great smile" or something like that. Be careful though, you don't want to lay it on too heavy on the customers. You WILL get fired if you do.
I want to work at a retail clothing store, like the Buckle. I think that would be an awesome way to talk to hot girls putting on hot clothes. I have a girlfriend now, but that doesn't mean I can't look! LOL
Don't compliment them on their looks. "You are so hot" is going to get you in trouble. You could make a comment on something their wearing, or say something along the lines along "You have a great smile" or something like that. Be careful though, you don't want to lay it on too heavy on the customers. You WILL get fired if you do.
I want to work at a retail clothing store, like the Buckle. I think that would be an awesome way to talk to hot girls putting on hot clothes. I have a girlfriend now, but that doesn't mean I can't look! LOL
The_Winger.
Don Juan
LOL,thanks for the advice guys keep it coming.
Joke around with the attractive customers. I was a cashier, and usually the hot chicks that would come in once, would come in again. If that's where they shop, then that's where they shop! I used to tease the hot ones, never number close or compliment them in the register though. Your goal is to build rapport so she knows who you are, then see her around outside of work, and boom. Examples of what I used to do:
(Chick hands me a 20 dollar bill)
I give it right back to her and with a serious face, say, "We don't accept counterfeit twenties." I haven't failed with this one; always gets a laugh. Afterwards, obviously, I laugh with them.
Talk about what they buy, unless it's a personal product or embarassing. Use good judgement!
Keep it light, be cool.
(Chick hands me a 20 dollar bill)
I give it right back to her and with a serious face, say, "We don't accept counterfeit twenties." I haven't failed with this one; always gets a laugh. Afterwards, obviously, I laugh with them.
Talk about what they buy, unless it's a personal product or embarassing. Use good judgement!
Keep it light, be cool.
The_Winger.
Don Juan
Alright.Sounds good.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
yeah it will work. i had a similar job like yours and dude i used to have some good times. its so easy talking to chicks man. your probably going to meet some chicks. like if they buy something make a comment on it saying this cd is good. or this movie is good. just have fun, remember to. theres to many times i see dudes and they look like there going to kill someone. so relax when your doint it.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Nexus Polaris
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Be careful. A friend of mine got fired for being too friendly with girls that came into his store.
The_Winger.
Don Juan
Oh ok.I won't be that friendly...but still friendly enough to possibly meet them after work.