The_Winger.
Don Juan
I work as a service cashier (checkouts).Does anybody know if i could meet some chicks through this? What would i say? kthankxbai
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Is this a good way to meet new chicks?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
KontrollerX
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You work with any hot chicks there?
Thats the best way to go about it.
Hitting on the customers might creep them out.
Thats the best way to go about it.
Hitting on the customers might creep them out.
The_Winger.
Don Juan
Yeah i work with a few hot chicks but they have boyfriends...
What about commenting hot customers on there looks?
Ive done some approaches when i'm not on checkouts like when im packing the shelfs,EG look for a young hot confused customer and say 'Do you need help with anything?' so yeah thats some of it.
What about commenting hot customers on there looks?
Ive done some approaches when i'm not on checkouts like when im packing the shelfs,EG look for a young hot confused customer and say 'Do you need help with anything?' so yeah thats some of it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well yeah, ask them if they need help with anything, but if you want you can continue the conversation, ask them how their day is going, if they're around the area, where they work, etc. As long as you're cool, you can talk to them about anything.
Don't compliment them on their looks. "You are so hot" is going to get you in trouble. You could make a comment on something their wearing, or say something along the lines along "You have a great smile" or something like that. Be careful though, you don't want to lay it on too heavy on the customers. You WILL get fired if you do.
I want to work at a retail clothing store, like the Buckle. I think that would be an awesome way to talk to hot girls putting on hot clothes. I have a girlfriend now, but that doesn't mean I can't look! LOL
Don't compliment them on their looks. "You are so hot" is going to get you in trouble. You could make a comment on something their wearing, or say something along the lines along "You have a great smile" or something like that. Be careful though, you don't want to lay it on too heavy on the customers. You WILL get fired if you do.
I want to work at a retail clothing store, like the Buckle. I think that would be an awesome way to talk to hot girls putting on hot clothes. I have a girlfriend now, but that doesn't mean I can't look! LOL
The_Winger.
Don Juan
LOL,thanks for the advice guys keep it coming.
Joke around with the attractive customers. I was a cashier, and usually the hot chicks that would come in once, would come in again. If that's where they shop, then that's where they shop! I used to tease the hot ones, never number close or compliment them in the register though. Your goal is to build rapport so she knows who you are, then see her around outside of work, and boom. Examples of what I used to do:
(Chick hands me a 20 dollar bill)
I give it right back to her and with a serious face, say, "We don't accept counterfeit twenties." I haven't failed with this one; always gets a laugh. Afterwards, obviously, I laugh with them.
Talk about what they buy, unless it's a personal product or embarassing. Use good judgement!
Keep it light, be cool.
(Chick hands me a 20 dollar bill)
I give it right back to her and with a serious face, say, "We don't accept counterfeit twenties." I haven't failed with this one; always gets a laugh. Afterwards, obviously, I laugh with them.
Talk about what they buy, unless it's a personal product or embarassing. Use good judgement!
Keep it light, be cool.
The_Winger.
Don Juan
Alright.Sounds good.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
yeah it will work. i had a similar job like yours and dude i used to have some good times. its so easy talking to chicks man. your probably going to meet some chicks. like if they buy something make a comment on it saying this cd is good. or this movie is good. just have fun, remember to. theres to many times i see dudes and they look like there going to kill someone. so relax when your doint it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Nexus Polaris
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Be careful. A friend of mine got fired for being too friendly with girls that came into his store.
The_Winger.
Don Juan
Oh ok.I won't be that friendly...but still friendly enough to possibly meet them after work.