"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this a good response???

Jmay24

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Hey guys im new on this forum and I need some help plz.
I am trying to holla at this girl online and after I ask her why she
doesnt have a man she bounces this line at me:
''well i dont have a man cuz i dont want one n i deff. dont need one. n they're all asses sorry but u guys r n dont tell me that ur not like the rest of them. i hear it everyday;].''

I was thinking about saying something along the lines of:
''I respect your independence, and i'm sure you do hear it everyday,
but I think it would be better to actually get to know me before you put me in the ******* category...Sometimes you cant read a book by its cover.''
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jaggs

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I think I'd have to laugh at someone if they said that to me.

she sounds messed up. meet some sane girls in real life
 

Huffman

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You ain't "holla"ing anything with that response, that's for sure!

Get your sh!t together, she has serious problems. Rather tell her that...
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Jmay24 said:
''I respect your independence, and i'm sure you do hear it everyday,
but I think it would be better to actually get to know me before you put me in the ******* category...Sometimes you cant read a book by its cover.''
Dont qualify to her .I dont know why you feel the need that you should respond to that sh1t test . Simply , change the topic . Dont talk about it :D .
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MisterMcGee

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lol you're recycling BS response crap that she is most definitely used to hearing.
"personality is more important than looks!"
sure, it may be true for you, but it's so generic and she's heard it thousands of times.
 

Ubergreg

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Yeah, great.

The winky face is the sign of the moron.

(as if the rest of the message wasn't already)
 
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