"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jmay24

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Hey guys im new on this forum and I need some help plz.
I am trying to holla at this girl online and after I ask her why she
doesnt have a man she bounces this line at me:
''well i dont have a man cuz i dont want one n i deff. dont need one. n they're all asses sorry but u guys r n dont tell me that ur not like the rest of them. i hear it everyday;].''

I was thinking about saying something along the lines of:
''I respect your independence, and i'm sure you do hear it everyday,
but I think it would be better to actually get to know me before you put me in the ******* category...Sometimes you cant read a book by its cover.''
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jaggs

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I think I'd have to laugh at someone if they said that to me.

she sounds messed up. meet some sane girls in real life
 

Huffman

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You ain't "holla"ing anything with that response, that's for sure!

Get your sh!t together, she has serious problems. Rather tell her that...
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Jmay24 said:
''I respect your independence, and i'm sure you do hear it everyday,
but I think it would be better to actually get to know me before you put me in the ******* category...Sometimes you cant read a book by its cover.''
Dont qualify to her .I dont know why you feel the need that you should respond to that sh1t test . Simply , change the topic . Dont talk about it :D .
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MisterMcGee

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lol you're recycling BS response crap that she is most definitely used to hearing.
"personality is more important than looks!"
sure, it may be true for you, but it's so generic and she's heard it thousands of times.
 

Ubergreg

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Yeah, great.

The winky face is the sign of the moron.

(as if the rest of the message wasn't already)
 
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