Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Jmay24

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Hey guys im new on this forum and I need some help plz.
I am trying to holla at this girl online and after I ask her why she
doesnt have a man she bounces this line at me:
''well i dont have a man cuz i dont want one n i deff. dont need one. n they're all asses sorry but u guys r n dont tell me that ur not like the rest of them. i hear it everyday;].''

I was thinking about saying something along the lines of:
''I respect your independence, and i'm sure you do hear it everyday,
but I think it would be better to actually get to know me before you put me in the ******* category...Sometimes you cant read a book by its cover.''
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jaggs

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I think I'd have to laugh at someone if they said that to me.

she sounds messed up. meet some sane girls in real life
 

Huffman

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You ain't "holla"ing anything with that response, that's for sure!

Get your sh!t together, she has serious problems. Rather tell her that...
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Jmay24 said:
''I respect your independence, and i'm sure you do hear it everyday,
but I think it would be better to actually get to know me before you put me in the ******* category...Sometimes you cant read a book by its cover.''
Dont qualify to her .I dont know why you feel the need that you should respond to that sh1t test . Simply , change the topic . Dont talk about it :D .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MisterMcGee

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lol you're recycling BS response crap that she is most definitely used to hearing.
"personality is more important than looks!"
sure, it may be true for you, but it's so generic and she's heard it thousands of times.
 

Ubergreg

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Yeah, great.

The winky face is the sign of the moron.

(as if the rest of the message wasn't already)
 
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