"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this a good response???

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Jmay24

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Hey guys im new on this forum and I need some help plz.
I am trying to holla at this girl online and after I ask her why she
doesnt have a man she bounces this line at me:
''well i dont have a man cuz i dont want one n i deff. dont need one. n they're all asses sorry but u guys r n dont tell me that ur not like the rest of them. i hear it everyday;].''

I was thinking about saying something along the lines of:
''I respect your independence, and i'm sure you do hear it everyday,
but I think it would be better to actually get to know me before you put me in the ******* category...Sometimes you cant read a book by its cover.''
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jaggs

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I think I'd have to laugh at someone if they said that to me.

she sounds messed up. meet some sane girls in real life
 
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You ain't "holla"ing anything with that response, that's for sure!

Get your sh!t together, she has serious problems. Rather tell her that...
 
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Daddy The Pimp

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Jmay24 said:
''I respect your independence, and i'm sure you do hear it everyday,
but I think it would be better to actually get to know me before you put me in the ******* category...Sometimes you cant read a book by its cover.''
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Dont qualify to her .I dont know why you feel the need that you should respond to that sh1t test . Simply , change the topic . Dont talk about it :D .
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MisterMcGee

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lol you're recycling BS response crap that she is most definitely used to hearing.
"personality is more important than looks!"
sure, it may be true for you, but it's so generic and she's heard it thousands of times.
 
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Yeah, great.

The winky face is the sign of the moron.

(as if the rest of the message wasn't already)
 
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