"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Is this a good or bad plan
- Thread starter Bullbearpig
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
GearsGod310
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Very true I agree. But don't wait on her to hit you up. Cut contact with her. And in the mean time go to the gym and be productive so you're not thinking about what happened. Theres other chicks man. IF she does come back around it means she has really high interest and you cant **** up after that.
Yeah, you should always have other women. If she reaches out, then cool, but if not there are always more women out there.
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In fact, I would have turned my phone off.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maybe, maybe not, who knows...
SoSuave666
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1. Allows me to properly assess the woman I am meeting. I can pay attention to who she is and see if we are a good match. Is she on her phone? Do we have good common interests? Are we vibing?
2. It sets a precedent in her mind that my time is valuable and that I am not always on my phone. That way when she texts me and I respond a couple hours later it won't be incongruent with who I am as a man. If I'm always on my phone in her company she knows I'm either not interested or playing a game with her if I don't text back immediately.
I agree, save this tactic for when you feel her pulling away, not when you’re trying to get it in for the first time lol
