"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this a good idea?

danieljsalas

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Hey guys , first post here but a lot of reading for 9 months. It just occurred to me, if it will be a good idea to ask a girl for the most stupid things of all " the time"

then one could say
-"thanks for your help but it was just an excuse to meet you" with a small smile on your face.

-"what's your name"

And go on with the conversation.

In my opinion it sounds very stupid but with girls SOMETIMES NOT ALWAYS the most stupid things are the ones that make the work, i haven't use this ...so what do you thing guys?

thanks a million

daniel
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rhoto

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First: Clean up written and probably verbal communication skills, you sound, stupid.

Secondly: It can be, depends on the girl. Try it tomorrow.
 

Rhoto

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Try the Ice Cream technique.

a: Whats your favorite Ice Cream Flavor
b: Vanilla
a: Ooh, if you had said chocolate, I would've asked for your number. But you didn't say Mint, so I guess I can still talk to you.

This requires a serious level of confidence, because if played incorrectly, you fail. Miserably. But done properly, you break the ice and build rapport.

But try everything.
 

Fluid

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Rhoto said:
Try the Ice Cream technique.

a: Whats your favorite Ice Cream Flavor
b: Vanilla
a: Ooh, if you had said chocolate, I would've asked for your number. But you didn't say Mint, so I guess I can still talk to you.

This requires a serious level of confidence, because if played incorrectly, you fail. Miserably. But done properly, you break the ice and build rapport.

But try everything.

great line, keep em coming :D :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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