"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this a good idea?

danieljsalas

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Hey guys , first post here but a lot of reading for 9 months. It just occurred to me, if it will be a good idea to ask a girl for the most stupid things of all " the time"

then one could say
-"thanks for your help but it was just an excuse to meet you" with a small smile on your face.

-"what's your name"

And go on with the conversation.

In my opinion it sounds very stupid but with girls SOMETIMES NOT ALWAYS the most stupid things are the ones that make the work, i haven't use this ...so what do you thing guys?

thanks a million

daniel
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rhoto

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First: Clean up written and probably verbal communication skills, you sound, stupid.

Secondly: It can be, depends on the girl. Try it tomorrow.
 

Rhoto

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Try the Ice Cream technique.

a: Whats your favorite Ice Cream Flavor
b: Vanilla
a: Ooh, if you had said chocolate, I would've asked for your number. But you didn't say Mint, so I guess I can still talk to you.

This requires a serious level of confidence, because if played incorrectly, you fail. Miserably. But done properly, you break the ice and build rapport.

But try everything.
 

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Rhoto said:
Try the Ice Cream technique.

a: Whats your favorite Ice Cream Flavor
b: Vanilla
a: Ooh, if you had said chocolate, I would've asked for your number. But you didn't say Mint, so I guess I can still talk to you.

This requires a serious level of confidence, because if played incorrectly, you fail. Miserably. But done properly, you break the ice and build rapport.

But try everything.

great line, keep em coming :D :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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