"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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danieljsalas

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Hey guys , first post here but a lot of reading for 9 months. It just occurred to me, if it will be a good idea to ask a girl for the most stupid things of all " the time"

then one could say
-"thanks for your help but it was just an excuse to meet you" with a small smile on your face.

-"what's your name"

And go on with the conversation.

In my opinion it sounds very stupid but with girls SOMETIMES NOT ALWAYS the most stupid things are the ones that make the work, i haven't use this ...so what do you thing guys?

thanks a million

daniel
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rhoto

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First: Clean up written and probably verbal communication skills, you sound, stupid.

Secondly: It can be, depends on the girl. Try it tomorrow.
 

Rhoto

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Try the Ice Cream technique.

a: Whats your favorite Ice Cream Flavor
b: Vanilla
a: Ooh, if you had said chocolate, I would've asked for your number. But you didn't say Mint, so I guess I can still talk to you.

This requires a serious level of confidence, because if played incorrectly, you fail. Miserably. But done properly, you break the ice and build rapport.

But try everything.
 

Fluid

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Rhoto said:
Try the Ice Cream technique.

a: Whats your favorite Ice Cream Flavor
b: Vanilla
a: Ooh, if you had said chocolate, I would've asked for your number. But you didn't say Mint, so I guess I can still talk to you.

This requires a serious level of confidence, because if played incorrectly, you fail. Miserably. But done properly, you break the ice and build rapport.

But try everything.

great line, keep em coming :D :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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