"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is this a good idea?

danieljsalas

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Hey guys , first post here but a lot of reading for 9 months. It just occurred to me, if it will be a good idea to ask a girl for the most stupid things of all " the time"

then one could say
-"thanks for your help but it was just an excuse to meet you" with a small smile on your face.

-"what's your name"

And go on with the conversation.

In my opinion it sounds very stupid but with girls SOMETIMES NOT ALWAYS the most stupid things are the ones that make the work, i haven't use this ...so what do you thing guys?

thanks a million

daniel
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rhoto

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First: Clean up written and probably verbal communication skills, you sound, stupid.

Secondly: It can be, depends on the girl. Try it tomorrow.
 

Rhoto

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Try the Ice Cream technique.

a: Whats your favorite Ice Cream Flavor
b: Vanilla
a: Ooh, if you had said chocolate, I would've asked for your number. But you didn't say Mint, so I guess I can still talk to you.

This requires a serious level of confidence, because if played incorrectly, you fail. Miserably. But done properly, you break the ice and build rapport.

But try everything.
 

Fluid

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Rhoto said:
Try the Ice Cream technique.

a: Whats your favorite Ice Cream Flavor
b: Vanilla
a: Ooh, if you had said chocolate, I would've asked for your number. But you didn't say Mint, so I guess I can still talk to you.

This requires a serious level of confidence, because if played incorrectly, you fail. Miserably. But done properly, you break the ice and build rapport.

But try everything.

great line, keep em coming :D :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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