"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is this a FWB situation in the works?

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Went out with a HB7 last week, closed the date with a make out. I hit her up a few days later to set up a second date, she agreed. I told her to meet me at my house and she agreed. We went to the local bar and had two drinks and we were all over each other. An hour later, she asks for me to take her back to my place. She was very forward.

Got back to my place and banged her out a few times. The first thing she asks me for was a towel to put under vagina because she didnt want her juices wetting my mattress. She stayed until 7am and as she was getting ready to leave, she said we should do this again. I always initiate, she never texts me. Should I treat this as just a **** buddy and forget the dinner and drinks bs, just text her, hey come over and watch a movie and then bang? If I can avoid buying dinner and drinks thats what I want but I dont want to come across as just using her for sex.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Do coffee. Keep things casual but, if you continue with the dinner date crap, you are peppering her for more expectations.
 

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Just play it out & see man. Nothing wrong with an occasional drink out with a FWB. Some I've had in past always paid their own way. The last 1 I had always initiated 1st so idk they are all different. It's way too early to tell and we don't no jack shït about this broad.

What the fück kind of question is this shït, SS
posters don't know the future. We aren't pychics, Smh.
 
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I'd just stay casual for a while...don't start seeing things that arent there yet just because she gave you some pvssy like so many guys do.

Drinks, pool, movies, etc...no fancy dinners...if you do dinner make it a quick service place under $30 for both of you.
 

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Buy alcohol from a store and have her come to your place to drink/movie/bang.

Why keep it casual if it doesn't need to be? She sounds DTF with minimal effort, if that's what you want then do it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Buy alcohol from a store and have her come to your place to drink/movie/bang.

Why keep it casual if it doesn't need to be? She sounds DTF with minimal effort, if that's what you want then do it.
You ask why keep it casual and then advise to keep it as casual as it can get? Makes no sense.
 

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Sorry wrong choice of words, was on the train to work and forgot to edit.

Basically I'm saying F the dating and keep it strictly housebound unless he wants to go watch a movie or drink outside (sounds like he doesn't).
 
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