"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this a FWB situation in the works?

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Went out with a HB7 last week, closed the date with a make out. I hit her up a few days later to set up a second date, she agreed. I told her to meet me at my house and she agreed. We went to the local bar and had two drinks and we were all over each other. An hour later, she asks for me to take her back to my place. She was very forward.

Got back to my place and banged her out a few times. The first thing she asks me for was a towel to put under vagina because she didnt want her juices wetting my mattress. She stayed until 7am and as she was getting ready to leave, she said we should do this again. I always initiate, she never texts me. Should I treat this as just a **** buddy and forget the dinner and drinks bs, just text her, hey come over and watch a movie and then bang? If I can avoid buying dinner and drinks thats what I want but I dont want to come across as just using her for sex.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do coffee. Keep things casual but, if you continue with the dinner date crap, you are peppering her for more expectations.
 
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Just play it out & see man. Nothing wrong with an occasional drink out with a FWB. Some I've had in past always paid their own way. The last 1 I had always initiated 1st so idk they are all different. It's way too early to tell and we don't no jack shït about this broad.

What the fück kind of question is this shït, SS
posters don't know the future. We aren't pychics, Smh.
 
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I'd just stay casual for a while...don't start seeing things that arent there yet just because she gave you some pvssy like so many guys do.

Drinks, pool, movies, etc...no fancy dinners...if you do dinner make it a quick service place under $30 for both of you.
 
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Buy alcohol from a store and have her come to your place to drink/movie/bang.

Why keep it casual if it doesn't need to be? She sounds DTF with minimal effort, if that's what you want then do it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Murkserious said:
Buy alcohol from a store and have her come to your place to drink/movie/bang.

Why keep it casual if it doesn't need to be? She sounds DTF with minimal effort, if that's what you want then do it.
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You ask why keep it casual and then advise to keep it as casual as it can get? Makes no sense.
 
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Sorry wrong choice of words, was on the train to work and forgot to edit.

Basically I'm saying F the dating and keep it strictly housebound unless he wants to go watch a movie or drink outside (sounds like he doesn't).
 
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