"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this a FWB situation in the works?

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Went out with a HB7 last week, closed the date with a make out. I hit her up a few days later to set up a second date, she agreed. I told her to meet me at my house and she agreed. We went to the local bar and had two drinks and we were all over each other. An hour later, she asks for me to take her back to my place. She was very forward.

Got back to my place and banged her out a few times. The first thing she asks me for was a towel to put under vagina because she didnt want her juices wetting my mattress. She stayed until 7am and as she was getting ready to leave, she said we should do this again. I always initiate, she never texts me. Should I treat this as just a **** buddy and forget the dinner and drinks bs, just text her, hey come over and watch a movie and then bang? If I can avoid buying dinner and drinks thats what I want but I dont want to come across as just using her for sex.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do coffee. Keep things casual but, if you continue with the dinner date crap, you are peppering her for more expectations.
 
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Just play it out & see man. Nothing wrong with an occasional drink out with a FWB. Some I've had in past always paid their own way. The last 1 I had always initiated 1st so idk they are all different. It's way too early to tell and we don't no jack shït about this broad.

What the fück kind of question is this shït, SS
posters don't know the future. We aren't pychics, Smh.
 
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I'd just stay casual for a while...don't start seeing things that arent there yet just because she gave you some pvssy like so many guys do.

Drinks, pool, movies, etc...no fancy dinners...if you do dinner make it a quick service place under $30 for both of you.
 
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Buy alcohol from a store and have her come to your place to drink/movie/bang.

Why keep it casual if it doesn't need to be? She sounds DTF with minimal effort, if that's what you want then do it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Murkserious said:
Buy alcohol from a store and have her come to your place to drink/movie/bang.

Why keep it casual if it doesn't need to be? She sounds DTF with minimal effort, if that's what you want then do it.
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You ask why keep it casual and then advise to keep it as casual as it can get? Makes no sense.
 
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Sorry wrong choice of words, was on the train to work and forgot to edit.

Basically I'm saying F the dating and keep it strictly housebound unless he wants to go watch a movie or drink outside (sounds like he doesn't).
 
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