How the hell does someone sleep for 3 days!!!!! Even a 2 year old knows she's full of **** but not you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is This A Forgivable Flake??
- Thread starter soulforge
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
See bolded. The world is at your feet my friend. The opportunities with woman are limitless and yet you're stuck on the highlighted above. It is human nature to find comfort in something that is constant especially with such a long history but sometimes you've just got to let it go especially where your post clearly shows she has you wrapped around her fingers.
My ex tried to hit me up the other day. I am on the worlds most epic long dry streak but I declined and continued on my way because nothing good ever comes with ex's. They're an ex for a reason.
yungballa
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It's preached on these forums that you should NOT go back to your exes... Going back to your ex leads to ONLY TRAGEDY! It's very RARE you end up with an ex and its a good outcome... going back to an ex might be a good short term fix (in my opinion, it's never a good idea anyway), but just think about the long term. She's probably just gonna cause you more hurt.
She's just trying to see if you're still in her reach so she can stroke her ego/validate herself that she's desired by you. My advice: please, please, please, for your own well-being, talk to other females, and try to fvck them. There are BILLIONS of girls on this planet. Just think about having an opportunity to fvck billions of different females in this world. You have that opportunity. Why the hell should you waste your time on a damn ex who's really just tryna play some childish ass mind games? Pick up your self-worth and self-respect and kick that hoe to the curb and go fvck some different women; you're worth more than going back to a foolish ex who just wants to stroke her own ego.
She's just trying to see if you're still in her reach so she can stroke her ego/validate herself that she's desired by you. My advice: please, please, please, for your own well-being, talk to other females, and try to fvck them. There are BILLIONS of girls on this planet. Just think about having an opportunity to fvck billions of different females in this world. You have that opportunity. Why the hell should you waste your time on a damn ex who's really just tryna play some childish ass mind games? Pick up your self-worth and self-respect and kick that hoe to the curb and go fvck some different women; you're worth more than going back to a foolish ex who just wants to stroke her own ego.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.