"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this a booty call?

CaConfused

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Not too experienced on this one.

I dated a girl two times. We had mediocre drunken sex on 2nd date. Not surprisingly. she showed lower IL after that.

I went NC, then contacted her randomly via text last night (Sunday) and told her I couldn't find my car in Oakland in an amusing way. She texted back rapidly asking if I want a ride, etc. And then she also said we should get drinks next week.

I responded by ignoring her drink req and told her I need to find my car first. I didnt want to jump on that right away

Q1 - When should I text her out for drinks? My schedule is packed. Is tonight too quickly?
Q2 - Isn't that basically code for sex?

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Greasy Pig

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Just hit her up when you feel like it. But throw her the occasional flirty text every now and then to keep her on the hook.
 

Packers2010

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if you don't know if it's a booty call or not. then no it's not. ( general rule of thumb)

anything over 10 pm can be considered a booty call. if the call is sexual that is.
 

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Packers2010 said:
if you don't know if it's a booty call or not. then no it's not. ( general rule of thumb)

anything over 10 pm can be considered a booty call. if the call is sexual that is.
Love the nickname Packers 2010. See my new post "Is she playing games with me" to see the update.
 

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Packers2010 said:
if you don't know if it's a booty call or not. then no it's not. ( general rule of thumb)

anything over 10 pm can be considered a booty call. if the call is sexual that is.
Love the nickname Packers 2010. See my new post "Is she playing games with me" to see the update.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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