"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is this a booty call?

CaConfused

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Not too experienced on this one.

I dated a girl two times. We had mediocre drunken sex on 2nd date. Not surprisingly. she showed lower IL after that.

I went NC, then contacted her randomly via text last night (Sunday) and told her I couldn't find my car in Oakland in an amusing way. She texted back rapidly asking if I want a ride, etc. And then she also said we should get drinks next week.

I responded by ignoring her drink req and told her I need to find my car first. I didnt want to jump on that right away

Q1 - When should I text her out for drinks? My schedule is packed. Is tonight too quickly?
Q2 - Isn't that basically code for sex?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Greasy Pig

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Just hit her up when you feel like it. But throw her the occasional flirty text every now and then to keep her on the hook.
 

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if you don't know if it's a booty call or not. then no it's not. ( general rule of thumb)

anything over 10 pm can be considered a booty call. if the call is sexual that is.
 

CaConfused

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Packers2010 said:
if you don't know if it's a booty call or not. then no it's not. ( general rule of thumb)

anything over 10 pm can be considered a booty call. if the call is sexual that is.
Love the nickname Packers 2010. See my new post "Is she playing games with me" to see the update.
 

CaConfused

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Packers2010 said:
if you don't know if it's a booty call or not. then no it's not. ( general rule of thumb)

anything over 10 pm can be considered a booty call. if the call is sexual that is.
Love the nickname Packers 2010. See my new post "Is she playing games with me" to see the update.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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