"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is this a booty call?

CaConfused

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Not too experienced on this one.

I dated a girl two times. We had mediocre drunken sex on 2nd date. Not surprisingly. she showed lower IL after that.

I went NC, then contacted her randomly via text last night (Sunday) and told her I couldn't find my car in Oakland in an amusing way. She texted back rapidly asking if I want a ride, etc. And then she also said we should get drinks next week.

I responded by ignoring her drink req and told her I need to find my car first. I didnt want to jump on that right away

Q1 - When should I text her out for drinks? My schedule is packed. Is tonight too quickly?
Q2 - Isn't that basically code for sex?

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Greasy Pig

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Just hit her up when you feel like it. But throw her the occasional flirty text every now and then to keep her on the hook.
 

Packers2010

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if you don't know if it's a booty call or not. then no it's not. ( general rule of thumb)

anything over 10 pm can be considered a booty call. if the call is sexual that is.
 

CaConfused

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Packers2010 said:
if you don't know if it's a booty call or not. then no it's not. ( general rule of thumb)

anything over 10 pm can be considered a booty call. if the call is sexual that is.
Love the nickname Packers 2010. See my new post "Is she playing games with me" to see the update.
 

CaConfused

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Packers2010 said:
if you don't know if it's a booty call or not. then no it's not. ( general rule of thumb)

anything over 10 pm can be considered a booty call. if the call is sexual that is.
Love the nickname Packers 2010. See my new post "Is she playing games with me" to see the update.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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