"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this a blow off or **** test?

Konada

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So I received this text today:

Me: Hey how's your leg coming along? (She sprained her knee)
HB: its okay haha thanks for asking
Me: Thats good to hear. Anyway, you down for drinks at xxx on tues or wednesday?
HB: What? Lol why so random?

My first gut instinct told me this was a blowoff and full of disinterest but I would like to hear your opinion on this. I never replied to that text.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Zapp Brannigan

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If you already mentioned/arranged the date before the text then I'd say it's a s**t test. You'd be better off arranging anything like that with her in person.
 

pyros

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clearly you havent build any rapport with this girl.

Besides, the way you asked her out was plain cold. I mean, you asked her how her leg was (ok...) and inmediately you asked her out with a damn place/time set already (following someone's advise...wrong in my opinion) which made you look a bit like a creep.

Keep it simple man, ask how she's doing, have some small conversation, and then just ask her:

OP: when are you free to meet this week?


This way you give her plenty of time to choose from. If she doesnt seem excited about it and/or is busy or something (excuse) you forget about her. Not that complicated really...
 

Vulpine

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I am starting to really enjoy reading these texty game fails.

Actually typing "What?" in response to a text she can simply read again? Then "Lol"ing about it? What more do you need? A drink splashed in your face? Perhaps a kick in the nuts?

You can text her back "answer the question", which might invoke some tingles, but ultimately you'd be wasting your button pushing.

Texty games... :rolleyes:

Next time, call, and you won't be treated like a püssy.
 

Meisterman

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I would just reply back, if at all, "so is that a yes or a no?" but you don't want to give off the impression she offended you. Just have her answer the damn question, no games. And if she beats around the bush like she is now then you can assume she's not interested and next her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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