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Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 2, 2007
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Guys quick story short, I dated my EX for 4 years, lived for 1 of those years. She broke up with me, I turned into an AFC trying to get her back. Fast forward a year later and I have changed quite a bit, great job, new car, great shape.. pretty much the best me ever. During that 1 year I saw her twice for quick coffees but got rid of her and worked on myself.
This last time we met she invited me out to go out with her.. I was bored so I did.. we went kayaking and spent a good 4-5 hours together. She kept making excuses to extend her time with me and even offered to pay for my food when we went to get food... to which I declined. Now guys, keep in mind shes been dating some bloke for about 8 months now...
So anywho, I dropped her off and she went on about how I have to come out with her again to this bar. I told her "yea, maybe". So she messages me on facebook..
ex-
Hey!
Do you wanna go to the mountain shadow next wednesday? Its really fun! and they have like 25cent wings or something like that if we get there early!
me-
That should work, BUT its kinda early so I don't wanna make any promises. Plus i will probably drink, i don't know if I want you to see me all boozed up
ex-
September 3 at 9:48pm
Omg just come with me!! Ill see u boozed up at some point, mite aswell be now.
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so anywho, its in a few days and I still haven't given her the FOR SURE. I am currently spinning some plates with some younger girls but I dunno, I feel like I can get her back by laying some game on her this wednesday, I mean I have come a long way from my AFC ways and I wanna get laid and I feel there is still something there.
The problem is shes dating someone, but obviously cant be that great if she wants to come hang out with me... and ****, deep inside I feel like this might be a bad idea.
THOUGHTS?
This last time we met she invited me out to go out with her.. I was bored so I did.. we went kayaking and spent a good 4-5 hours together. She kept making excuses to extend her time with me and even offered to pay for my food when we went to get food... to which I declined. Now guys, keep in mind shes been dating some bloke for about 8 months now...
So anywho, I dropped her off and she went on about how I have to come out with her again to this bar. I told her "yea, maybe". So she messages me on facebook..
ex-
Hey!
Do you wanna go to the mountain shadow next wednesday? Its really fun! and they have like 25cent wings or something like that if we get there early!
me-
That should work, BUT its kinda early so I don't wanna make any promises. Plus i will probably drink, i don't know if I want you to see me all boozed up
ex-
September 3 at 9:48pm
Omg just come with me!! Ill see u boozed up at some point, mite aswell be now.
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so anywho, its in a few days and I still haven't given her the FOR SURE. I am currently spinning some plates with some younger girls but I dunno, I feel like I can get her back by laying some game on her this wednesday, I mean I have come a long way from my AFC ways and I wanna get laid and I feel there is still something there.
The problem is shes dating someone, but obviously cant be that great if she wants to come hang out with me... and ****, deep inside I feel like this might be a bad idea.
THOUGHTS?