Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is there anything wrong with seeing escorts?(long, personal story)

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I agree with you. Me myself was an addict to porn and thanks to God and meself I've turned that around. My perception of life changed for the better without a doubt. I was not into anything extreme or saw many kinks, but it sucked my life energy. I'm thankful I'm not addicted to it anymore, my life changed.
I don't know how you can be into porn and also live in Brazil. You guys are the most oversexed nation in the world. Your morning hosts are pornstars, your women walk around nude during carnival. Every1 in Brazil is getting laid on the regular. Man I went to a nightclub with this one b1tch and she dumped me because we didn't fvck the first night. Brazil must've changed since I've been there but I recall Biananas being the horniest creatures on the planet.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I wasn't sure, little disappointed though, more interesting if you were seeing little gremlins running around. Not a cop btw, law enforcement is a big field\
Apart from this sentence, I think you are replying @Grinderman since, honestly I'm a homophobe and am totally opposed to that so you are talking to the wrong person.
 

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Yes, it does. Porn plants the seeds of latent homosexuality. In other words, porn turns many an otherwise heterosexual man, one who is not fully in control of his desires, into a potential homosexual time bomb waiting to blow....(literally and figuratively).
That is not true because I'm totally homophobic and don't even like seeing my own private parts let along other guys. I only like how a woman looks like because I'm only attracted to them.


Grinderman said:
Back to porn........Take your "normal" male growing up.....he masturbates.....he's watching C0CK on the screen as well as tits and puzzy......but all these images of c0ck gets absorbed by the subconscious. The subconscious CANNOT THINK FOR ITSELF it just takes in what you put there and sooner or later will try to manifest it into the concrete world..

...the seed has been planted. Again and again.
Again, all this is not true. First of all, the porn I watch is only escort pics because they are advertising themselves. I don't like watching porn that involves any guy on there period, and I can say this as a fact, that apart from escort pics, nothing turns me on. In fact, if I do watch porn, it's just a woman talking on a camera pretending to be stepmom or something and egging me on to fap. That's just the extent to what I would look at if I even go there.

If escorts stopped advertising, all interest in "porn", being escort pics, would literally disappear in a zap.


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A man has plenty of his own experiences that he can draw upon if he feels like the letting one out OR potential lays that he is GOING TO PERSUE. Your own imagination is rich with experience and potential. Don't pollute it with unnecessary wrong input and garbage.

For the moment, all discipline seems not to be pleasant, but painful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterward it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.
Agreed. Some points I'm 100% with you, other points, such as homo or gay stuff, 100% opposed. I would be totally against any perversion, which is why porn is limited to escort pics and simple attraction to women. The only exception is lesbian porn, but again, that only involves women, but I don't look at that much. Just don't have the desire to watch that, but escort pics have always been an insidious attraction that can't go away and keeps raring its head from time to time.
 

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I'm against prostitution for one reason only. A good friend of mine banged a local one and he got herpes. He is stuck with that for the rest of his life.
That really sucks. Hopefully he wore a rubber. I’ve heard some guys raw dog hookers. Disgusting
 

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I don't know how you can be into porn and also live in Brazil. You guys are the most oversexed nation in the world. Your morning hosts are pornstars, your women walk around nude during carnival. Every1 in Brazil is getting laid on the regular. Man I went to a nightclub with this one b1tch and she dumped me because we didn't fvck the first night. Brazil must've changed since I've been there but I recall Biananas being the horniest creatures on the planet.
I was into porn cause I wasn't getting any, that's why guys watch porn.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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These just randomly popped up on youtube as recommendations. Someone is spying...

Food for thought:

How the Godless woman catches her prey

The mass psychosis and the demons of Dostoevsky
 

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OP, the only thing i will say is don't beat yourself up over silly women. If you want an escort and have the money then go for it. It literally doesn't matter. Making yourself miserable over what kind of women you can sleep with each week does, though.
 

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These just randomly popped up on youtube as recommendations. Someone is spying...

Food for thought:

How the Godless woman catches her prey

The mass psychosis and the demons of Dostoevsky
Nah, my SMV is too low for that to be an issue, lol!
 

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These just randomly popped up on youtube as recommendations. Someone is spying...

Food for thought:

How the Godless woman catches her prey

The mass psychosis and the demons of Dostoevsky
You know your devices can hear you right? This is where AI is seeing the most use, marketing. Your device listens for keywords and puts those things infront of you more because you're likely to click them. It also sends this info back to 1000 different agencies which sell it to other big data agencies...
 

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This video popped into my memory after looking at those other videos.

 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm against prostitution for one reason only. A good friend of mine banged a local one and he got herpes. He is stuck with that for the rest of his life. You are exposing yourself to a cesspit of disease not to mention the criminal underworld that Grinderman mentioned. There are handlers, they have guns, baseball bats etc etc and they are not afraid to use them to shake you down. I don't know I guess I'm cheap but I can't imagine banging a chick that I would have to hand money over to, I can't even do that with my wife. :)

That said, if you are a dog ugly dude and she's offering a service she hasn't been coerced into, I don't see anything wrong with it. This clip is meant to make you feel guilty I guess, but some damn fine women there if you're into the colour yellow.

I was exposed to this stuff at a young age. My old man and my uncle used to do business in Thailand, so I was there quite a bit as a teen. My uncle when I was around 14, took me to a place in Germany (flight stop over) and told me to pick anyone. Well I backed out. My dad and him did it again when I was 16 in Thailand, told me to pick a girl at this bar we were at. I picked this one hot bartender and my uncle gave her 50 bucks and she took me in the back and started to touch me. Well I started trying to talk to her about her life, found out she was 15 yearsold or something and then I started asking her what it was like to go to school in Thailand. Uh, it was really awkward and I just told her to keep the money, she didn't look happy about that. Anyway, it turned out that my uncle took her back to his place at the end of the night to get his money's worth... I rode in the car the whole way. My uncle was 50+ at the time and a high school principal. It was the most uncomfortable ride I've ever taken in a taxi.

He got hooked on some prostitute in Thailand, thought they were in love. Chick's name was Ooom. My dad called her Boom Boom Ooom. Anyway, my uncle ended up sending her a ton of money on the promise that she wouldn't sleep with anyone else. She agreed but honestly, everyone knew what the hell was going on. Of course later it turned out that she had 3 or 4 guys just like my uncle that were handing her cash and travelling back and forth to Thailand. All while he was an upstanding, democratic, pillar of the community at home. LOL.

He wasn't my blood uncle btw, he was one of my father's battle buddies from NAM.

I don't like to confess this, but I love asian women. I gotta take a tour of asia.
 

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He is still going to need a lot of game to close. He isn't a 6'4" Brad Pitt. If he lost 6 inches of height and gained 6pts in charisma he would be 3x as successful.

The difference between most posters here and incels is that most of us escaped the negative feedback loop. We ALL had it or else we would not be here. I used to have the same processes he has. Incels, on the other hand, cannot escape the programming because it is too deep and/or their ego is still in Disney fairyland.

With him, the biggest obvious issue is that he doesn't feel he should need to change or can change. To be fair, it won't be easy.
You don't need much charisma as a 6'4" muscular guy. All you need is to just not fucck it up. I'm 5'10" and not as muscular so I need charisma to get panties to drop.
 

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You don't need much charisma as a 6'4" muscular guy. All you need is to just not fucck it up. I'm 5'10" and not as muscular so I need charisma to get panties to drop.
In your opinion, does a muscular 5’11 guy need charisma?
 

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I haven't posted on this thread in a while.

Earlier in the week I had decided not to pursue spending time with that particular escort and I had cancelled. I personally do not feel that there is anything wrong with seeking out something like this but I feel that it's not a good thing for me at this point in time.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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In some wealthy upper class spheres, young men using escorts is preferred over excessive romantic intimacy. In general, when the elite do something there is a good reason. I recall reading a Rothschild biography which mentioned they never married for romance or emotional reasons which I think is quite astute.
 

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I haven't posted on this thread in a while.

Earlier in the week I had decided not to pursue spending time with that particular escort and I had cancelled. I personally do not feel that there is anything wrong with seeking out something like this but I feel that it's not a good thing for me at this point in time.
That's cool. You know she is always there for you to have access too, whether you use her or not. I feel that way about some escorts I haven't visited yet and end up with mental sessions with them, because of the fact they are there and I could potentially have a good-time with them if I wanted to. Its all about having an opportunity to visit someone, not actually going along with it.
 

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You don't need much charisma as a 6'4" muscular guy. All you need is to just not fucck it up. I'm 5'10" and not as muscular so I need charisma to get panties to drop.
So what do I at 5'5" have to do? :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
 

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The jump happened on December 6, 2014, the the morning after December 5, 2014 I saw escort before midnight. (If you are a cop in Canada then you should know the law made buying sex illegal after midnight so this was a panic purchase). This would be metaphorically of course, I'm not schizophrenic, its the turmoil I felt in my soul and in my conscience.
So what time in the day does it become legal again?
 

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In fact, if I do watch porn, it's just a woman talking on a camera pretending to be stepmom or something and egging me on to fap. That's just the extent to what I would look at if I even go there.
So you're a fan of ASMR JOI?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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