"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is there any women who are not minipulative

Are there any unminipulative women

  • yes

    Votes: 11 68.8%
  • no

    Votes: 4 25.0%
  • I've never been laid so I dont know

    Votes: 1 6.3%

  • Total voters
    16

Mistic

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Even the "good ones" seem to be up to no good. They are just sneakier about it. Not to mention the fact that most women want to get pregnant. That alone fuels much manipulation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dead ones and ones not yet born. my 6 year old daughter is manipulative. Every human being on earth is. So are you.
 

Mistic

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Warrior74 said:
dead ones and ones not yet born. my 6 year old daughter is manipulative. Every human being on earth is. So are you.
With that premise, then, could there be any chance of having love or trust in a relationship?
 

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that's a pretty unbalanced view of people in general
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Cry For Love

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skillful in influencing or controlling others to your own advantage; "the early manipulative techniques of a three-year-old child

thats what manipulative means according to some dictinary. And women have to be manipulative in order to get men, they have to present themselves to men in such a way to manipulate the men to think that the girl is cute and display themselves in the best possible way. Its a biological necessity for finding mating partners, you could say.! so yes, they are all manipulative.

For men its a far less needed personality trait as they can just get straight to point of what they want for themselves in a more aggressive way without purposely trying to alter other people's minds, men can just do what they want without reducing their sexual attractiveness value
 
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