"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is there any women who are not minipulative

Are there any unminipulative women

  • yes

    Votes: 11 68.8%
  • no

    Votes: 4 25.0%
  • I've never been laid so I dont know

    Votes: 1 6.3%

  • Total voters
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Mistic

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Even the "good ones" seem to be up to no good. They are just sneakier about it. Not to mention the fact that most women want to get pregnant. That alone fuels much manipulation.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Warrior74

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dead ones and ones not yet born. my 6 year old daughter is manipulative. Every human being on earth is. So are you.
 

Mistic

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Warrior74 said:
dead ones and ones not yet born. my 6 year old daughter is manipulative. Every human being on earth is. So are you.
With that premise, then, could there be any chance of having love or trust in a relationship?
 

ready123

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that's a pretty unbalanced view of people in general
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cry For Love

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skillful in influencing or controlling others to your own advantage; "the early manipulative techniques of a three-year-old child

thats what manipulative means according to some dictinary. And women have to be manipulative in order to get men, they have to present themselves to men in such a way to manipulate the men to think that the girl is cute and display themselves in the best possible way. Its a biological necessity for finding mating partners, you could say.! so yes, they are all manipulative.

For men its a far less needed personality trait as they can just get straight to point of what they want for themselves in a more aggressive way without purposely trying to alter other people's minds, men can just do what they want without reducing their sexual attractiveness value
 
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