Mistic
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Even the "good ones" seem to be up to no good. They are just sneakier about it. Not to mention the fact that most women want to get pregnant. That alone fuels much manipulation.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is there any women who are not minipulative
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mistic
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With that premise, then, could there be any chance of having love or trust in a relationship?Warrior74 said:dead ones and ones not yet born. my 6 year old daughter is manipulative. Every human being on earth is. So are you.
LostAndConfused
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I'm pretty sure thats not what he meant.....Warrior74 said:dead ones and ones not yet born. my 6 year old daughter is manipulative. Every human being on earth is. So are you.
ready123
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that's a pretty unbalanced view of people in general
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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skillful in influencing or controlling others to your own advantage; "the early manipulative techniques of a three-year-old child
thats what manipulative means according to some dictinary. And women have to be manipulative in order to get men, they have to present themselves to men in such a way to manipulate the men to think that the girl is cute and display themselves in the best possible way. Its a biological necessity for finding mating partners, you could say.! so yes, they are all manipulative.
For men its a far less needed personality trait as they can just get straight to point of what they want for themselves in a more aggressive way without purposely trying to alter other people's minds, men can just do what they want without reducing their sexual attractiveness value
thats what manipulative means according to some dictinary. And women have to be manipulative in order to get men, they have to present themselves to men in such a way to manipulate the men to think that the girl is cute and display themselves in the best possible way. Its a biological necessity for finding mating partners, you could say.! so yes, they are all manipulative.
For men its a far less needed personality trait as they can just get straight to point of what they want for themselves in a more aggressive way without purposely trying to alter other people's minds, men can just do what they want without reducing their sexual attractiveness value
Cry For Love
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oops