Mandiblard
Senior Don Juan
They don't have many solos, but the one in "Where Eagles Have Been" is awesome.Wee said:haha, they sound like zepplin, minus jimmy paige's kick ass solos.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
They don't have many solos, but the one in "Where Eagles Have Been" is awesome.Wee said:haha, they sound like zepplin, minus jimmy paige's kick ass solos.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The songs that I used to listen to are from Jon Young, 50 Cents, Sum 41, Flipsyde, Fort Minor, Akon, etc. I like just about any song that has some meaning to it. Not like most of the new songs that have been coming out.Tongs said:Nox: Which bands would you consider to be "good"
You can't ask for reccommendations without giving any ideas as to what you like
Radio rap is crap rap. But there is actually good hip-hop if you look for it. My favorite rap groups are the ones that incorporate more instrumentation into their music and are more melodic and laid-back, like People Under The Stairs or The Roots.Joe The Homophobe said:rap music must be eradicated..for the good of humanity.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I can dig it. Charles Webster, Ame, Larry Heard, Vincenzo, Schmoov, Dennis Ferrer, Alix Alvarez, Motor City Soul are probably the best overall producers right now.elton said:house music baby, anyone else?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
house music is the ************** best musicelton said:house music baby, anyone else?
Docs said:I'm going to post a list of some NEW songs that I like and I bet that 90% of you will be lucky to have heard at least 4 of these songs.
Even better, some of these are bands that have CDs out right now, some are promotional releases, some are even advance single releases.
Need To Breathe - Haley
Revelation Theory - Selfish And Cold
Life Of Agony - Wicked Ways
Megan McCauley - Die For You
Hurt - Falls Apart
Dark New Day - Follow The Sun Down
Funeral For A Friend - History
Marty Casey And The Lovehammers - Trees
Sugarcult - Do It Alone
No Address - Lasting Words
Evans Blue - Over
Augustana - Boston
The Killers - When You Were Young
Melee - The War
Pete Yorn - For Us
Alter Bridge - Shed My Skin
Mae - Anything
The White Stripes - Walking With A Ghost
Nine Black Alps - Unsatisfied
Blink 182 - Not Now
Mike Doughty - Looking At The World
Shinedown - Fake
...This goes to show that complaining doesn't solve much. I sure didn't get these songs from Billboard/MTV/Much.![]()
-PM me your email and a song you'd like to hear/can't find. I'll cut you a clip. (And I'm say this because you won't find this stuff normally, trust me.)
Please don't associate these new whiny emo bands with ROCK music. Rock & Roll has PLENTY of energy and soul. Too bad there isn't anybody like Hendrix nowdaysPersonally I cant stand rock... it strikes me as music for people who cant dance (or feel anything besides the whining angst typical of this genre) I like more uplifting sh!t with energy and soul.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You know, my dad always asks me why I like to blare my music so that everyone around me can hear it...you're the reason. Anyways, you sound like my grandma.Joe The Homophobe said:rap music must be eradicated..for the good of humanity.
Haha sorry, it took me about halfway through the list before I realized I had the song and artist mixed up (I thought it was song-artist). I had heard of a couple of those bads but damn, can't they pick normal names without trying to be creative but still ending up sounding cliche. Judging by all of those names of songs, it is more bands singing depressing songs about the not so great parts of life. What ever happened to songs that didn't focus on the bad sh*t? Fake, unsatisfied, Selfish And Cold, Wicked Ways, Die For You, Falls Apart - I'm about to start tearin' up here dude. Just like all rap videos have cars and girls in them, all modern rock is boring and sad sounding, or about a girl (ughh).Docs said:I'm going to post a list of some NEW songs that I like and I bet that 90% of you will be lucky to have heard at least 4 of these songs.
Even better, some of these are bands that have CDs out right now, some are promotional releases, some are even advance single releases.
Need To Breathe - Haley
Revelation Theory - Selfish And Cold
Life Of Agony - Wicked Ways
Megan McCauley - Die For You
Hurt - Falls Apart
Dark New Day - Follow The Sun Down
Funeral For A Friend - History
Marty Casey And The Lovehammers - Trees
Sugarcult - Do It Alone
No Address - Lasting Words
Evans Blue - Over
Augustana - Boston
The Killers - When You Were Young
Melee - The War
Pete Yorn - For Us
Alter Bridge - Shed My Skin
Mae - Anything
The White Stripes - Walking With A Ghost
Nine Black Alps - Unsatisfied
Blink 182 - Not Now
Mike Doughty - Looking At The World
Shinedown - Fake
...This goes to show that complaining doesn't solve much. I sure didn't get these songs from Billboard/MTV/Much.![]()
-PM me your email and a song you'd like to hear/can't find. I'll cut you a clip. (And I'm say this because you won't find this stuff normally, trust me.)
Joe The Homophobe said:If you want good music you have to look to the old days. My favorite music is outlaw country (old country music). Waylon Jennings and Merle Haggard are my 2 favorite artists. I discovered their music a few months ago and now that is all I listen to. It shows how good they are since I knew nothing about country music before I listened to their songs. They were real cowboys, real outlaws. They were real country music back when country music was manly and real cowboys and former outlaws sang it. Not the nice pop music like country music you hear today.
Waylon Jennings a real cowboy, Merle Haggard turned 21 in prison doing life without parole. They were "real" for sure.
Waylon Jennings performance (youtube)
Merle Haggard performance on youtube
Like I said if you want good music you have to look to the old days mostly. Whether it be rock to country the best bands and singers are the ones of the past.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.