Mandiblard
Senior Don Juan
They don't have many solos, but the one in "Where Eagles Have Been" is awesome.Wee said:haha, they sound like zepplin, minus jimmy paige's kick ass solos.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
They don't have many solos, but the one in "Where Eagles Have Been" is awesome.Wee said:haha, they sound like zepplin, minus jimmy paige's kick ass solos.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The songs that I used to listen to are from Jon Young, 50 Cents, Sum 41, Flipsyde, Fort Minor, Akon, etc. I like just about any song that has some meaning to it. Not like most of the new songs that have been coming out.Tongs said:Nox: Which bands would you consider to be "good"
You can't ask for reccommendations without giving any ideas as to what you like
Radio rap is crap rap. But there is actually good hip-hop if you look for it. My favorite rap groups are the ones that incorporate more instrumentation into their music and are more melodic and laid-back, like People Under The Stairs or The Roots.Joe The Homophobe said:rap music must be eradicated..for the good of humanity.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I can dig it. Charles Webster, Ame, Larry Heard, Vincenzo, Schmoov, Dennis Ferrer, Alix Alvarez, Motor City Soul are probably the best overall producers right now.elton said:house music baby, anyone else?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
house music is the ************** best musicelton said:house music baby, anyone else?
Docs said:I'm going to post a list of some NEW songs that I like and I bet that 90% of you will be lucky to have heard at least 4 of these songs.
Even better, some of these are bands that have CDs out right now, some are promotional releases, some are even advance single releases.
Need To Breathe - Haley
Revelation Theory - Selfish And Cold
Life Of Agony - Wicked Ways
Megan McCauley - Die For You
Hurt - Falls Apart
Dark New Day - Follow The Sun Down
Funeral For A Friend - History
Marty Casey And The Lovehammers - Trees
Sugarcult - Do It Alone
No Address - Lasting Words
Evans Blue - Over
Augustana - Boston
The Killers - When You Were Young
Melee - The War
Pete Yorn - For Us
Alter Bridge - Shed My Skin
Mae - Anything
The White Stripes - Walking With A Ghost
Nine Black Alps - Unsatisfied
Blink 182 - Not Now
Mike Doughty - Looking At The World
Shinedown - Fake
...This goes to show that complaining doesn't solve much. I sure didn't get these songs from Billboard/MTV/Much.![]()
-PM me your email and a song you'd like to hear/can't find. I'll cut you a clip. (And I'm say this because you won't find this stuff normally, trust me.)
Please don't associate these new whiny emo bands with ROCK music. Rock & Roll has PLENTY of energy and soul. Too bad there isn't anybody like Hendrix nowdaysPersonally I cant stand rock... it strikes me as music for people who cant dance (or feel anything besides the whining angst typical of this genre) I like more uplifting sh!t with energy and soul.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You know, my dad always asks me why I like to blare my music so that everyone around me can hear it...you're the reason. Anyways, you sound like my grandma.Joe The Homophobe said:rap music must be eradicated..for the good of humanity.
Haha sorry, it took me about halfway through the list before I realized I had the song and artist mixed up (I thought it was song-artist). I had heard of a couple of those bads but damn, can't they pick normal names without trying to be creative but still ending up sounding cliche. Judging by all of those names of songs, it is more bands singing depressing songs about the not so great parts of life. What ever happened to songs that didn't focus on the bad sh*t? Fake, unsatisfied, Selfish And Cold, Wicked Ways, Die For You, Falls Apart - I'm about to start tearin' up here dude. Just like all rap videos have cars and girls in them, all modern rock is boring and sad sounding, or about a girl (ughh).Docs said:I'm going to post a list of some NEW songs that I like and I bet that 90% of you will be lucky to have heard at least 4 of these songs.
Even better, some of these are bands that have CDs out right now, some are promotional releases, some are even advance single releases.
Need To Breathe - Haley
Revelation Theory - Selfish And Cold
Life Of Agony - Wicked Ways
Megan McCauley - Die For You
Hurt - Falls Apart
Dark New Day - Follow The Sun Down
Funeral For A Friend - History
Marty Casey And The Lovehammers - Trees
Sugarcult - Do It Alone
No Address - Lasting Words
Evans Blue - Over
Augustana - Boston
The Killers - When You Were Young
Melee - The War
Pete Yorn - For Us
Alter Bridge - Shed My Skin
Mae - Anything
The White Stripes - Walking With A Ghost
Nine Black Alps - Unsatisfied
Blink 182 - Not Now
Mike Doughty - Looking At The World
Shinedown - Fake
...This goes to show that complaining doesn't solve much. I sure didn't get these songs from Billboard/MTV/Much.![]()
-PM me your email and a song you'd like to hear/can't find. I'll cut you a clip. (And I'm say this because you won't find this stuff normally, trust me.)
Joe The Homophobe said:If you want good music you have to look to the old days. My favorite music is outlaw country (old country music). Waylon Jennings and Merle Haggard are my 2 favorite artists. I discovered their music a few months ago and now that is all I listen to. It shows how good they are since I knew nothing about country music before I listened to their songs. They were real cowboys, real outlaws. They were real country music back when country music was manly and real cowboys and former outlaws sang it. Not the nice pop music like country music you hear today.
Waylon Jennings a real cowboy, Merle Haggard turned 21 in prison doing life without parole. They were "real" for sure.
Waylon Jennings performance (youtube)
Merle Haggard performance on youtube
Like I said if you want good music you have to look to the old days mostly. Whether it be rock to country the best bands and singers are the ones of the past.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.