Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
To effectively spin plates. Could use some advice from the masters.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Wasn't it? What else could there be?BraddH said:Spontaneous.
Do you like timeshare?KnightOfCydonia said:Wasn't it? What else could there be?
If you have no problem getting the girls then it's all up to not committing! If they don't want to, they can go and be replaced… Wanting to hide or lie about it is a different thing that shows fear of losing someone! Just do your thing… Simple as that...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It's not like you're gonna tell them! And I personally don't have a problem banging a girl that wants to bang other dudes as well as long as I don't get involved emotionally!vantagepoint said:Do you like timeshare?
Wow. We are having a moment here.KnightOfCydonia said:It's not like you're gonna tell them! And I personally don't have a problem banging a girl that wants to bang other dudes as well as long as I don't get involved emotionally!