Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
To effectively spin plates. Could use some advice from the masters.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is there a proper way
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
KnightOfCydonia
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Don't commit...
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Spontaneous.
KnightOfCydonia
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Wasn't it? What else could there be?BraddH said:
If you have no problem getting the girls then it's all up to not committing! If they don't want to, they can go and be replaced… Wanting to hide or lie about it is a different thing that shows fear of losing someone! Just do your thing… Simple as that...
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Do you like timeshare?KnightOfCydonia said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
KnightOfCydonia
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It's not like you're gonna tell them! And I personally don't have a problem banging a girl that wants to bang other dudes as well as long as I don't get involved emotionally!vantagepoint said:
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Wow. We are having a moment here.KnightOfCydonia said: