Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
To effectively spin plates. Could use some advice from the masters.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is there a proper way
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
KnightOfCydonia
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Don't commit...
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Spontaneous.
KnightOfCydonia
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Wasn't it? What else could there be?BraddH said:
If you have no problem getting the girls then it's all up to not committing! If they don't want to, they can go and be replaced… Wanting to hide or lie about it is a different thing that shows fear of losing someone! Just do your thing… Simple as that...
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Do you like timeshare?KnightOfCydonia said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
KnightOfCydonia
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It's not like you're gonna tell them! And I personally don't have a problem banging a girl that wants to bang other dudes as well as long as I don't get involved emotionally!vantagepoint said:
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Wow. We are having a moment here.KnightOfCydonia said: