Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
To effectively spin plates. Could use some advice from the masters.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Is there a proper way
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
KnightOfCydonia
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Don't commit...
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Spontaneous.
KnightOfCydonia
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Wasn't it? What else could there be?BraddH said:
If you have no problem getting the girls then it's all up to not committing! If they don't want to, they can go and be replaced… Wanting to hide or lie about it is a different thing that shows fear of losing someone! Just do your thing… Simple as that...
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Do you like timeshare?KnightOfCydonia said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
KnightOfCydonia
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It's not like you're gonna tell them! And I personally don't have a problem banging a girl that wants to bang other dudes as well as long as I don't get involved emotionally!vantagepoint said:
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Wow. We are having a moment here.KnightOfCydonia said: