"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is there a fine line between being a DJ and a Male slut?

Don Juanabbe

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Because after this past couple weeks I fear I'm becoming the latter.....

Not that I'm complaining, mind you. ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Here's how I see it...

A DJ would put more effort into seeing if the girl is good enough for him. By testing her, asking her questions, etc.

A "male slut" would work his way to getting the girl in bed (easiest shortcut) without questioning whether or not she is good enough for him.
(therefore ruining some DJ principles such as: being a challenge, by being an easy catch for the girl)

I may be wrong, but I doubt it.
 

00Kevin

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there is no such thing as the male slut

only women can be sluts. :)


just be sure to send those women my way. :)
 

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We call women who fvck a guy, before getting to know him, a slut.

Same goes for a guy. If you fvck any pvssy you come across without adhering to standards, then yes, you are a male slut.

Of course that's just a label made by society and if you're cool with that, go for it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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There is no such thing as a Male Slut. That is a feminine term applied to real men. For you to even post this means that you've been sold a rotten bill of goods pal.

We players have lots of women cause we are real men. We don't go by the rules. We make our own rules. A slut is a term applied to females not men.

The same goes for that faggoty term " Male whor" a who*re is a female not a male. A gigalo is a female version of a hor.

It's too late to change the title of this post. I just wanted to deprogram any kids who might read this thread and buy into the feminization of the modern man crap that is going on.

And don't let Puerto Rican Lover see this thread cause he will really come down on you.
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
There is no such thing as a Male Slut. That is a feminine term applied to real men. For you to even post this means that you've been sold a rotten bill of goods pal.

We players have lots of women cause we are real men. We don't go by the rules. We make our own rules. A slut is a term applied to females not men.

The same goes for that faggoty term " Male whor" a who*re is a female not a male. A gigalo is a female version of a hor.

It's too late to change the title of this post. I just wanted to deprogram any kids who might read this thread and buy into the feminization of the modern man crap that is going on.

And don't let Puerto Rican Lover see this thread cause he will really come down on you.
You're right. I'm still travelling my road and I suppose I'm feeling the leftover guilt of doing things I've been programmed all my life to think are bad (for men to do). Just another piece of baggage that needs to be left behind me on the road.
 
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