Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Because after this past couple weeks I fear I'm becoming the latter.....
Not that I'm complaining, mind you.
Not that I'm complaining, mind you.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Is there a fine line between being a DJ and a Male slut?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Here's how I see it...
A DJ would put more effort into seeing if the girl is good enough for him. By testing her, asking her questions, etc.
A "male slut" would work his way to getting the girl in bed (easiest shortcut) without questioning whether or not she is good enough for him.
(therefore ruining some DJ principles such as: being a challenge, by being an easy catch for the girl)
I may be wrong, but I doubt it.
A DJ would put more effort into seeing if the girl is good enough for him. By testing her, asking her questions, etc.
A "male slut" would work his way to getting the girl in bed (easiest shortcut) without questioning whether or not she is good enough for him.
(therefore ruining some DJ principles such as: being a challenge, by being an easy catch for the girl)
I may be wrong, but I doubt it.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
I think you're right. I think maybe I'm just out of control right now.
Soma
Banned
We call women who fvck a guy, before getting to know him, a slut.
Same goes for a guy. If you fvck any pvssy you come across without adhering to standards, then yes, you are a male slut.
Of course that's just a label made by society and if you're cool with that, go for it.
Same goes for a guy. If you fvck any pvssy you come across without adhering to standards, then yes, you are a male slut.
Of course that's just a label made by society and if you're cool with that, go for it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
Exactly. It takes skill to get a woman into bed.Originally posted by 00Kevin
there is no such thing as the male slut
only women can be sluts.
Player_Supreme
Banned
There is no such thing as a Male Slut. That is a feminine term applied to real men. For you to even post this means that you've been sold a rotten bill of goods pal.
We players have lots of women cause we are real men. We don't go by the rules. We make our own rules. A slut is a term applied to females not men.
The same goes for that faggoty term " Male whor" a who*re is a female not a male. A gigalo is a female version of a hor.
It's too late to change the title of this post. I just wanted to deprogram any kids who might read this thread and buy into the feminization of the modern man crap that is going on.
And don't let Puerto Rican Lover see this thread cause he will really come down on you.
We players have lots of women cause we are real men. We don't go by the rules. We make our own rules. A slut is a term applied to females not men.
The same goes for that faggoty term " Male whor" a who*re is a female not a male. A gigalo is a female version of a hor.
It's too late to change the title of this post. I just wanted to deprogram any kids who might read this thread and buy into the feminization of the modern man crap that is going on.
And don't let Puerto Rican Lover see this thread cause he will really come down on you.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
You're right. I'm still travelling my road and I suppose I'm feeling the leftover guilt of doing things I've been programmed all my life to think are bad (for men to do). Just another piece of baggage that needs to be left behind me on the road.